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Just Said Yes November 2018

Question: Severely Mentally Handicapp? Am i wrong?

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k, on February 10, 2018 at 4:07 AM

My future sister-n-law want me to include her severely handicap daughter to the guest list with the wedding being a week away. We agreed almost a year ago for her to get a babysitter due to her behavioral symptoms (she yells and screams a lot and its uncontrollable). I don't want her to come because her behaviors cause a distraction. She is use to it, but the guests will definitely began looking around when she randomly yells and screams. We are also videotaping the ceremony and reception. I would like to hear my vows on video, but fear her yelling will come on the tape. The family is in odds over this and its causing a lot of drama. Am I wrong for not wanting to invite her? Not sure if this matters, but also her diapers need to be changed (bathroom at venue is kind of small) and she is in a wheelchair and about age 25.

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Sarah · on February 13, 2018 at 6:06 AM
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I can say as a mom that if I was your FSIL, not only would I not be attending your wedding but I’d no longer have a relationship with you or your FH. It is awful the way you’re talking about your niece, and the fact that you excluded her while including your other nieces is even worse. Do you know this is a public forum? I bet it wouldn’t be hard for your FSIL to find this and read the disgusting attitude you have toward her daughter.
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Master September 2018
Jennifer · on February 13, 2018 at 11:34 AM
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I am completely in awe of this question. I have a special needs nephew who is very vocal and can start dancing at any moment in time along with his outbursts and other behaviors. He loves to dance, & sing, he gets in trouble in school for dancing & singing too much. It was not even a thought in my head how he would "ruin" my wedding video?!?! He is part of my family and I will not get married without him there. SMH.... I just can't believe you are worried about your video and how this person could disrupt "your day".
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