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Kia9
Super August 2017

Quick path to engaged

Kia9, on March 15, 2017 at 8:31 AM

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I feel like I am always reading articles that say you should date two or three years before being engaged (which was not my case, at all). Did anyone else get engaged under the "recommended" time? ETA: FH and I are in our 30s and are both 100% confident that we are each other's "person," I just like...

I feel like I am always reading articles that say you should date two or three years before being engaged (which was not my case, at all). Did anyone else get engaged under the "recommended" time? ETA: FH and I are in our 30s and are both 100% confident that we are each other's "person," I just like hearing stories from other people who knew right away they found their forever Smiley smile

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  • FutureMrsMonty
    Super November 2017
    FutureMrsMonty ·
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    Nope. We found out we were pregnant shortly after our 1 year anniversary and got engaged just a couple months shy of our 2 year anniversary. We'll be getting married a month after being together for 3 years. So, we've kinda had a lifetime inside the recommended dating timeline. Hahaha we wouldn't change a thing though, we knew very early on that this was it for us. When you know, you know. *heart emoji*

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  • Victoria
    VIP February 2018
    Victoria ·
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    Dated 1.5 years before moving in together, then at 2.5 years we got engaged... but we are really young - only 21. However he is already in his career & I'm graduating school in a few months, we both had some wild times in our first year of dating and have matured an insane amount.... together Smiley smile

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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated May 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    Everyone's different, but we did get engaged right after 3 years together. But that doesn't make it the 'right way' Smiley smile everyone's unique to what works for them!

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  • Ashley
    VIP March 2018
    Ashley ·
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    FH unofficially proposed at two months, but while we knew that would would get married we kept it to ourselves. We officially got engaged on our two year anniversary. We also don't move on the " normal timeline", he moved in with me during our second week of dating.

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  • TheBlindBride
    Devoted June 2018
    TheBlindBride ·
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    We were on the slow path: engaged after just under eight years.

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  • Van Pear
    VIP January 2017
    Van Pear ·
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    H and I were on a relatively short path. We knew we'd get married a month into dating, but we didn't get engaged until a year and two months because he insisted we be together at least a year before thinking of marriage. We married almost exactly two years after meeting each other. I think it ended up being the perfect timing.

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  • BigQuestionmark
    Expert May 2017
    BigQuestionmark ·
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    We got engaged on our 2 yr anniversary. But we had talked about getting married before that. I was the one that wanted a "big" wedding. He would of been happy just going to the court house lol.

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  • Page
    VIP May 2017
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    We got engaged after 15 months of dating. But we also bought a house after just 6 months of dating. We're getting married right around the 2.5 year mark.

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  • mrsanda
    VIP March 2017
    mrsanda ·
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    I only know one person that was a typical two year dating to engagement. My FH and I were 5 years together before he proposed.

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  • Bee
    Master April 2017
    Bee ·
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    I didn't do that. We were dating for 18 months and will be engaged 18 months. If we had the funds all this would have been sooner. We knew we wanted to be together for good like a month in. We were both opposed to getting married though so for us the "forever" was moving in together which happened a few months in. I don't believe in schedules. I know a couple that was engaged at 6 months and married 6 months later with a strong marraige. I also know a couple that dated for 3 years, engaged for two, and now on the road to divorce because they can't agree on matters like if they want kids or where they want to live. My FH and I had this conversation a month into dating.

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  • BigQuestionmark
    Expert May 2017
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    My friend started going out with her bf in August. By January they moved in together and by Mid February he proposed. They're thinking of getting married on their 1 yest anniversary & by next year have vow renewal at the church. They are also trying to have baby. I do want to mention that she was married before for about 3 years. According to her, she knew what she was looking for.

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  • B
    Expert June 2018
    Bridget ·
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    We got engaged after a year and half. I don't think there is a magic number as long as you know one another and want to spend your loves together. Age can play a role too.

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  • Alicia v.
    Super March 2017
    Alicia v. ·
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    We dated two years before he proposed but marriage was discussed about three months into our relationship.

    We decided when we both met our financial goals discussed in the beginning that he would then propose and then two years later we had done just that!

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  • svg
    Expert October 2017
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    We started talking about marriage after only dating for several weeks, but didn't get engaged until we'd been dating nearly three and a half years. I could see things moving much faster if we had met later on, but we were both young (21 and 23) when we met and knew we had to finish our schooling, get into better paying jobs in order to move out on our own, etc.

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  • FinallyMrsJennings
    Devoted April 2017
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    My FH proposed on our one year anniversary and we are getting married on our two year anniversary. When you know you know! Number of years doesn't matter!

    He had the ring for about four months before he actually proposed. We could have been engaged as early as 8 months in and I would have been just as happy, excited, and ready to marry him.

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  • Jillian
    VIP October 2017
    Jillian ·
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    I think that totally depends on the couple. FH and I dated in middle school and through part of high school, decided to part ways and see other people for close to a decade, finally reconnecting after that. Its been eight years since we got back together, and he proposed last October (a week before our wedding date, actually).

    He didn't see a point to getting married because it shouldn't change anything between us, and I agree with him on that --- buuuutttt I wanted to share the day with my gigantic family, so we're getting married Smiley winking

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  • Rayla
    Super May 2017
    Rayla ·
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    I don't think you should worry too much about this. What is right for some might not be right for you.

    Today is FH and my two-year anniversary of dating. We got engaged 3 months ago. We will be married in May.

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  • Laura
    Master July 2017
    Laura ·
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    Engaged after 8 months. My best friend dated her now-husband for 9 years before he proposed (and she was beyond ready to marry him.)

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  • Kelsey
    Dedicated August 2017
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    My Fiancé and I are both young, so a quick engagement wasn't possible, but we knew we would get married one day a few months after we met and here we are today 7 1/2 months until our wedding! We've been together for a little over 3 years now. When you know, you know! My parents dated for 3 months before they were engaged and the were married 1 year from their first date! They just celebrated their 22nd anniversary!

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  • futuremrswmh
    Super October 2018
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    FH and I only dated a few months before becoming engaged and we couldn't be more confident in our decision. I am in my early 20s and he is in his late 20s with a 3 year old daughter. From the very beginning we knew we wanted to be a family and it just works. Time is all about perspective. If you are confident in your relationship that's all that matters!

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