My FH has a relative (the son of a great aunt) whom I’ve never met but we were planning on inviting to our wedding as my FH’s family is incredible close. This cousins has lived out of state until recently, making them the only family member I have not met in the 5 years we’ve been together.
I sent out our Save The Dates yesterday because we were waiting until after the holiday rush to send. Today I’m informed of a Facebook thread regarding recent events at the country’s capital. This cousin decided to not only angrily comment on the post but also spew utter nonsense, racist remarks and insults to those responding, including towards my future MIL.
My question is, now my FH is (rightfully so) pissed and doesn’t not want to invite him, even though we just sent out Save The Dates. Do we just not send him an invitation come time? How would you handle this kind of situation?