I’ll start off by saying i know my wedding and anything related to my wedding isn’t nearly as important to anyone else as it is to me. but i’m a little peeved.
i have a group chat with my side of the bridal party that includes my BFF/MOH, another close friend/bridesmaid, and my brother/bridesman. i ordered a sample invitation from basicinvite to ensure my design would actually work. of course, there’s some stuff i have to change and i asked for additional feedback from my bridal party.
first, i was worried about the host line being too close to a decorative design element for my liking. now, my host line indicates that both parents are hosting because. . well, they are. i mean, as far as i know. my parents are paying for the reception dinner and my fiancé’s parents plan to pay for. . something. idk what yet. anyway, my bridesmaid suggested just taking all of the parents’ names off the host line completely because “even if they’re contributing, it’s your wedding” and claims “idk, i’m just not that traditional”. like. . what? first, doesn’t matter if she’s traditional or not. i happen to be. (i think the catholic ceremony probably should’ve given that away.) also, it’s just proper etiquette to acknowledge your parents’ generosity in the invitation. i’m just bewildered because she’s literally a copywriter. she knows there’s a proper way to word different kinds of communications.
second, i was bemoaning the possibility of having to include any kind of reference to the reception on the invitation. since the ceremony and reception are in different locations, it’s more proper to have a separate reception card and regardless, all of the information would be too much on the invitation alone. my brother made a joke about reception cards sounding “medieval”, which i agree with—that’s why i didn’t want to purchase any. (also, $55 for 14 tiny reception cards? really?) then he tells me “honestly you’re overthinking this imo” and goes on to say as long as he can read the when and where, he doesn’t care. okay but? the fine details of the invitation literally aren’t for you? they’re for me. lol.
anybody have advice for people involved in your planning judging the traditional or non-traditional details when they personally know you’re just that kind of person and they just happen to be the opposite? i’m trying to keep in mind that my brother hasn’t been in any kind of serious relationship and he’s also a dude since starting university so he has know clue what kind of information you’re expected to provide to wedding guests. also that my friend isn’t heterosexual and also just
Post content has been hidden
To unblock this content, please click here
Related articles
![22 Show-Stopping Outfits for Your Wedding After-Party](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/articles/images/4/2/4/2/img_22424/tb_lead-4.jpg)
Wedding Fashion
22 Show-Stopping Outfits for Your Wedding After-Party
Keep the party going with an outfit change into one of these jaw-dropping looks....
![The Best Bridal Undergarments to Wear Under Your Wedding Dress](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/articles/images/1/4/2/4/img_24241/tb_wedding-dress-undergarments-getting-ready-1.jpeg)
Bride & Bridesmaids
The Best Bridal Undergarments to Wear Under Your Wedding...
Build the perfect foundation for your wedding attire with these top tips.
![7 Bridal Shower Traditions You Can Totally Skip](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/articles/images/1/8/0/7/img_7081/tb_lumme-creations.jpg)
Bridal & Wedding Showers
7 Bridal Shower Traditions You Can Totally Skip
Avoid an outdated event filled with awkwardness by skipping these seven bridal...