So about a week ago, I posted this: “I recently was asked to be a bridesmaid, and I’m super excited! However, I would never tell another bridesmaid what’s right or wrong.
well in our group chat, one of the BMs was telling the bride not to tell potential caterers that they’ll be catering a wedding because it’s less expensive.
Should I say something to the bride, or just let it be?”
Well I ended up telling the bride in a personal chat: “Hey bride! I saw the advice that BM gave you about the caterer regarding not saying it's a wedding. I just wanted to caution you in case you were thinking about doing that, as many vendors have stipulations in their contracts about being deceitful about the type of event they're a part of. Just want to make sure nothing happens on your happy day! 🙂”
She just gave a thumbs up to my message, then went to the group chat and said: “I've heard of that trick 🙂 thanks BM! For the cake I wasn't planning to mention the wedding hehe”
I’m not going to say anything to anyone, I guess I just kinda wanted to see how other people felt about it, and to kinda vent. Of course it’s not my wedding and not my business.
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