Hello!
I am having a really hard time with the wedding date we chose. I know this is silly and I need to get over it so just thought having some reassurance or other viewpoints would help.
My fiance and I got engaged on October 15, 2021. We first hung out October 15, 2017. Our current wedding date is October 8, 2022. I originally wanted to go with October 15, 2022, but the florist I wanted was only open the 8th of October. I booked her. After I booked her and made appointments with the caterer, she cancelled on me. She said she accidentally double booked... I had already booked the caterer for that date after booking with her. We also looked at the Ohio State football schedule, and at the time they played Iowa. On the 8th, they played a small school.
Now the OSU schedule got moved and the 15th is of course their bye week now, and the 8th they play a little bigger school.
I was so upset when I found out that I wanted to cancel all of the vendors or see if they could move to the 15th.
Why am I putting so much emphasis on a date? The only thing that matters is who I am marrying. I don't want to care about the date but I can't help but want to kick myself for not picking the 15th in the first place, and only choosing vendors who worked with that date...
October 8th is still kind of a cool date for us though, so I am trying to hold onto that. He was in a wedding on Oct. 8, 2016 that I was at, and we remember seeing each other. So technically the first time we ever saw each other was October 8. It wasn't until October 3 of 2017 that we began talking though.
I'm aware this makes me sound crazy! Lol. I just get so caught up on sentimental things.
Thanks for listening to my rant. :-)