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Sara
Expert August 2021

Receiving line is a bad idea?

Sara, on January 13, 2021 at 3:29 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 12
So if all falls into place and goes according to plan...we will be taking all pictures before the ceremony. The ceremony and reception are in the same space. So guests will need to leave the space so it can be flipped. Originally, my husband (eloped) wanted us to leave first, and stand outside the doors to help escort people out into the cocktail room. But from reading on here that is a horrible idea that a lot of people don't like doing. So, what should we do? We will also need certain family members to stay in their seats so we can do family pictures. We don't have a wedding coordinator so I'm just trying to figure out what is best to do.

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Latest activity by Alyssa, on January 19, 2021 at 12:12 PM
  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated September 2021
    Elizabeth ·
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    I went to a wedding that had to be flipped, and the couple dismissed each row. This ensured that people left the room so it could be flipped, and it also gave the couple a chance to say hello to everyone personally.

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  • Sara
    Expert August 2021
    Sara ·
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    I had a friend do that and it was alright, but I think I just didn't like it because I sat in the back. But definitely something to consider. It also might help with making sure the right people stay seated for pictures
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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    We did a receiving line, but this was prior to Covid. With Covid, I wouldn't recommend a receiving line because the way a receiving line works is that everyone would normally hug or shake your hand. I guess what confuses me is that you stated you are taking all photos beforehand so what do you need your family to stay behind for? For our wedding, we only did separate bridal party and first look photos prior so afterwards we did family, full bridal party photos, and extra photos of the two of us. We family knew were taking family photos immediately following so they weren't to go anywhere.

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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    You could have the officiant announce at the end of the ceremony that family member please stay seated for pictures, everyone else please make your way to the cocktail hour.

    To make sure you meet everyone, I would suggest visiting every table during the reception. That way you get to see everyone and speak to them at least once. Most weddings we've been to did this, and we loved it! We're also doing this as well.

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  • Sara
    Expert August 2021
    Sara ·
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    Apologies, all photos except family photos. Both sides of our family are notoriously late to everything so I don't plan on even trying to get them all together. I also only plan on doing parents and grandparents photos. And yeah covid aside, I see how a receiving line might be too much.
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  • Sara
    Expert August 2021
    Sara ·
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    I really wanted to do the table visit as well. A friend of ours played a fun song and raced around the room to take a picture at each table to make sure they got photos with all the guests!
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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    That sounds fun! I noticed you said 'wanted to do...', is there a reason you can't do table visits?

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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I don't think receiving lines are a bad idea without Covid hence why we had one. I liked getting to see and talk to each person even though it was very brief. In your case, I would have the officiant make an announcement asking everyone except for parents and grandparents of the bride and groom to please make their way to wherever cocktail hour is being hosted. Maybe enlist in the bridal party's help with pointing people towards where cocktail hour will be held.

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  • Sara
    Expert August 2021
    Sara ·
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    I guess I'm still in a mind set that this all might not happen and I am worrying for nothing 😅. Also the fact that I did get married and so I put a lot of things in past tense because of it. It's all so backwards!
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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    Oh haha I gotcha! No worries, I was just wondering! But yes, as a guest I liked table visits more than a receiving line, and as a future bride, I think I would prefer that as well.

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    You need something to greet your guests. Receiving lines are most common. Not sure why anyone would call them bad because they aren't. The other option is dismissing rows after the ceremony. That way you greet all your guests.


    Based on my personal experiences as a guest, I prefer both of those options over table visits anytime. They give you the feeling of individual attention where the table visits do not.
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  • Alyssa
    Super December 2021
    Alyssa ·
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    Do table visits with your photographer. The photographer keeps you moving so Chatty Patty doesn't keep you stuck at one table, but you still get to see everyone. Receiving lines will keep you from enjoying your own wedding (there will be a bottleneck) and you won't ever sit down.

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