Reception Invites - open bar

You don't need to add any of that to the invite - if you feel like you need to tell people, put it on your website! Traditionally, you don't give any details regarding buffet/bar, but I think if you're having a cash bar or dry wedding, you should let your guests know in advance via website.

This is something that is probably better to discuss verbally. If you really are worried, you can include it on a details page on your website.



Some people have no issue with their kids being around alcohol and they will also drink responsibly so they can supervise their kids. Other people need things spelled out a little bit, so they understand the social expectation that if you bring your kids you are responsible for monitoring their behavior. You know your guests so do what works best for your crowd.

No need to put details about the buffet and bar. We had a buffet and sort of open bar at our wedding reception and didn’t put anything on the invitations about that. If there’s not a meal selection in the RSVP, most people know to expect there will be a buffet.



With the kids thing, unless you absolutely want it to be adults-only no exceptions for anyone, then leave that to the discretion of each parent. A statement of “we can only accommodate adults” goes over better than mildly suggesting they leave the kids at home.

Etiquette varies by social circle but generally there is never any mention of the type of beverage service available. Guests will find out when they arrive. Is there a reason they need to know ahead of time, especially if they are not paying out of pocket?

As far as kids are involved, that decision is left to the parents’ discretion to decide. Unless it’s a child free event, you don’t say anything either way about kids.

Just put the date time location and if the you will be serving a sit down dinner which you give options too choose from steak, chicken or fish a circle for them to mark. And if its buffet style area for them simple response box Y or N

Definitely agree that this information should go on your website, not your invitations. It's not totally necessary, but it's nice to let folks know they won't need to purchase drinks - and maybe this will lead them to be extra generous when it comes to a gift!

I think it would be a nice touch to add that it will be open bar for those that have kids especially. They can make plans for an adult night out.