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Caroline
Just Said Yes February 2024

Reception/ceremony about an hour from airport

Caroline, on March 14, 2023 at 4:28 PM Posted in Planning 0 14
So I just started planning my wedding, I want it to be local (I live in Palm Beach County, FL) but everything is soooo expensive. I really want a hotel beach front wedding, but it seems like in order to have the wedding I want within my budget I’d need to look a bit further north. I found this gorgeous hotel that sent me a quote within my budget in Martin County, but the only problem is it’s 50 minutes from the closest airport (PBI). The majority of people will by flying in for the wedding and would either need to rent a car or Uber 50 mins to the hotel. Is that unreasonable? There are plenty of venues much closer to PBI and FLL airports but I’d have to compromise what I want in terms of venue, and would have less money for hair, makeup, photos, etc.


So what do you think? Is 50 mins from the airport too far? 🤔

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Latest activity by Erin, on March 18, 2023 at 12:18 PM
  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    One of my cousins had a wedding like this. Majority of guests had to fly in, and the location was a 1 hour drive from the nearest airport. It added so much stress and hassle, not to mention a ton of extra money for the rental car. Guests were all flying in from different places at different times, which made it impossible to coordinate splitting rental cars. Prices are still quite high since the rental car shortage from a couple years ago hasn't really dissipated.

    Four years later, everyone in my extended family still complains about their wedding and how inconvenient it was for us to attend. I would personally avoid this plan if at all possible. Since you are already asking guests to fly in for your wedding, adding on expensive rental cars/ubers to the cost of flights and lodging is not very considerate of your guests' budgets.

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  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
    Mcskipper ·
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    If guests are flying in, I’d expect most or many guests would rent a car no matter where the wedding is. This is pretty normal in my world.


    Actually, haha I went to a wedding a few years back in the location described — my whole family flew in from up north. Some people rented cars and others coordinated and shared rides with one another. The nice thing about the area is roads are straightforward and easy to navigate!
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  • M
    VIP August 2021
    Michelle ·
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    I'm the guest that always has to fly in. I'll accept an invite if the added drive is within 1.5 hrs, but not longer. Yes, I have declined a few and I'm willing to fly international. Guests typically factor in their own transport plan which includes taxis or rental cars. If your guests know each other, they can synch arrival times and split a car. Or you can help them saying "oh, my best friend is also arriving X date, X time. Maybe you can drive in together." I would rethink the venue if the drive is on dark, country roads which could be complicated for any night drivers.

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  • K
    Super September 2023
    Kimberly ·
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    So this might not work since you want a hotel venue, but is there any way you could get a room block for your guests somewhere close to the airport, and then provide a shuttle from there to your ceremony and reception venue by the beach? So would this hotel that you like still let you host the wedding there even if you don’t do rooms or just do a smaller block (like just you and FH, immediate family, and wedding party stay at the venue hotel, which is a much smaller group to coordinate all the transportation with)? I’m assuming since people have to fly in, most of them will come in the day before to avoid delays, having to rush to the wedding, lost luggage, etc, so that leaves plenty of time for a shuttle pick-up the day of.
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  • Caroline
    Just Said Yes February 2024
    Caroline ·
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    Well I’m thinking that everyone could stay AT the venue which is a hotel, and the rehearsal dinner would be there as well so once they Uber/drive from the airport they don’t have to really go anywhere else, if that makes sense.
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    I would not have an issue if the venue were local to you or your families. But when the venue is 50 minutes away from everyone, possibly more with traffic, with plenty of other nearby options, that's pushing it IMO, especially if it's for the sake of upgrades that are not meaningful to anyone else.

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  • Celia
    Just Said Yes February 2025
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    If they truly want to be there they will do it! Don’t sacrifice your wedding for the convenience of othersclap.gif

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  • Caroline
    Just Said Yes February 2024
    Caroline ·
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    Thanks everyone, I’m pretty sure we are going to go ahead with this venue. It’s significantly cheaper than the closer options and we can have the rehearsal dinner at the hotel, as well, so guests won’t need to drive around during the weekend. And we should have enough left over in our budget to send Uber vouchers to our out of town guests Smiley smile
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  • Jordan
    Just Said Yes April 2024
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    Hi Caroline! I don’t think it is too far at all. I think when you start to book over an hour it could be an issue. Maybe note on your wedding website times to avoid traveling from the airport? I live in Delray Beach and work on PB Island. If your guest know to avoid rush hour because 95 can be a standstill I would grateful if I was your guest. It at least shows you’re mindful of the distance.

    Did you look in Delray by any chance? The Delray Sands is Bech Front and more boutique and the Opal Grand is a fantastic location for a destination. Both are equidistant from FLL and PBI which gives your guest flexibility on flights. Not all airports fly into PBI and if they do they are usually more expensive than FLL. Just a thought, best of luck in your planning journey!

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  • Caroline
    Just Said Yes February 2024
    Caroline ·
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    Thanks Jordan! Yeah, I looked at both venues but Opal was way out of our budget and Delray Sands isn’t big enough unfortunately— my fiancé has a HUGE family.


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  • Pat
    Rockstar May 2023
    Pat ·
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    THIS!!!! There are going to be people who won't be happy no matter what kind of accomodations you make for THEIR convenience. Do what you want. Those who really want to be there for you will be there. On a personal note, I have people who have known about our wedding date for eighteen MONTHS, and have said "we'll be there no matter what!!" just started sending in "No" RSVP's. So even though I gave them 18 months to save, found 3 hotel blocks in varying price ranges, had rental car company discount codes, am providing a Welcome dinner to cut down on meal costs .... they still said no, money concerns. Bitter? yep.

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
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    Most guests don’t have an issue with the location of the ceremony or the distance from anywhere. It’s the driving distance/time between the ceremony and reception that should be kept to 30 minutes or less including traffic, and no hour+ gap where guests are left to entertain themselves.
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  • Richadwilliam
    Just Said Yes July 2009
    Richadwilliam ·
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    If you are looking for a ceremony venue about an hour from the airport, there are many great options to choose from. Depending on your budget and style, you could look into a beach or park venue, a local hotel or resort, a winery, a barn or farm, a museum or art gallery, or a private estate.

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  • Erin
    Super May 2022
    Erin ·
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    From a guest perspective, I would just book a room at that hotel where the wedding is and know that it’s where I’ll be spending the weekend and not care about the drive from the airport. It’s like when you visit out-of-town family. The airport is usually quite a drive from their house like 90% of the time.


    Does the hotel have plenty of rooms where traveling guests could book it for your wedding weekend?
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