Several things went wrong and even though the wedding was beautiful and I married my man of my dreams we are struggling to overcome all the debt from the wedding. We had no one monitoring how things were going out and being spent even though we hired someone to do it.. lots of shortcomings. How do we not let this start our marriage off stressful and frustrating? He jeeps saying we will be okay but I know he’s just trying to keep me calm. On top of everything my son was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes a few days before the wedding so I was in the hospital with him al the way up to day of rehearsal and had to leave people in charge and it didn’t work. Decorating my own venue until 4:30 am with my son sleeping on a couch the night before did not go to rehearsal dinner and had zero sleep. To go back at it at 7am and was expected to start getting ready at 9am... I was sick all day and sleep deprived. No one took care of us at the wedding we got our own plates and drinks ..I love him dearly so I would never regret the day but it takes everything I have not to cry when I think about it, and now the debt to cover all the expenses for mediocrity service 😢 any advice is appreciated 🙏🏼
