My fiancé and I aren't really big on gifts, we can buy everything we need ourselves and a lot of our friends are still in school or recently graduated so we want to ditch the registry, and offer guests the option to donate to a charity of our choice if they are feeling generous. This is something we've both agreed on long before we got engaged. However, my mom is pushing me to create a registry anyways, saying that many guests (mostly family) will still bring us gifts even if we ask them not to, so we might as well tell them what they should get. Is anyone else requesting no gifts at their wedding? If you did something like this in the past, how did it turn out?