Please help!
I’m attending the wedding of a coworker coming up and she has only asked for cash for their honeymoon. This is her second marriage, a coworker who hasn’t been the nicest/friendliest to me, and who I ended up getting pressured by the work team to spend a lot of money for the bridal shower already (money I allocated for a wedding gift that has already been used). I only spent that money to keep peace at work.
Her future husband pays all the bills/mortgage, and she has told everyone her honeymoon is mostly paid for already but is only asking for cash for their honeymoon as a wedding gift.
I know the rest of the team is giving her $100 each but I don’t want to spend that on someone whom I am not that close to and who has been downright rude before. I am bringing a date to the wedding.
Since it’s “cash” only I again feel obliged and pressured to complying. Any thoughts or ideas as to an alternative gift I could give, or what amount do I give that is less than $100 since I doesn’t so much on the work bridal shower already?
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