I've seen posts about registries, but I'd like to hear feedback pertaining to our specific situation.
We've been together 8 years, lived together 7 years. We already bought ourselves "upgraded" household stuff everyone suggests putting on our registry. We have other random stuff added on our registry at Amazon (towels, dishes, glassware, storage, etc.). However, we don't have a large enough registry to cover gifts for the bridal shower and wedding.
His family insists we have a bridal shower, which is why we even have a registry. I do understand some people will go off book and get personalized stuff or something creative. I was thinking of giving the registry info for the bridal shower and then suggesting a wishing well/forever home fund for the wedding. My thought was people would check the registry to see what is left after the shower if they didn't want to give money.
I get asking for money is frowned upon to some, but I will not add things to our registry just to add stuff. I've been decluttering for the last 6 months.