Hii everyone, would love some advice on this!
We have a September 2021 wedding planned in Spain. Half of the guests are coming from the US and half of the guests are coming from France. For those coming from France, this is a very reasonable distance and nothing out of the ordinary. Obviously for those coming from the US, it's a different story.
Registries are traditional in France according to my (French) fiancé and he feels like it would be strange not to have one, but I feel equally strange about asking the American guests for gifts when they are spending so much time/money to get to our wedding. The idea of a "honeyfund" is a possibility but I'm still trying to get past the feeling my US based guests will be like, ..really? Lol. That being said, I have a few people who already told me that they cannot attend and asked me for my registry. UGH help.