Warning long post and pretty much me just ranting since I can’t talk to anyone about it.. ugh
I’m having major regrets on a lot of things..
1 is my dress and how much I paid for it even though I set a $3000 budget but that’s if I didn’t find anything in the $1500 range (which I did but the other one I just couldn’t get out of my head)
2 is just having a destination wedding, didn’t realize how much I am going to be paying for (me just being naive).
3 is one of my bridesmaids wanted to be in the wedding and pretty much made herself a bridesmaids without me even asking and now that I’m in the process of trying to find HMUA for us all, and both of them were good with paying for their own. But now that I found a HMUA one of them is like well I gotta think about it.
Im just so frustrated with it all. We didn’t want a wedding party to be begin with, but then the one made herself one and then my best friend I couldn’t leave out since my other friend made herself one.
Im to the point where I am wanting to cancel the whole thing and just elope.. BUT then I would feel guilty because the girls already bought their dresses, shoes and jewelry and plus I already spent a lot of money on deposits that I wouldn’t get back...
Anyone else having regrets??