So my FFIL doesn't like to be in social situations and doesn't attend many family events. He seemed excited about the wedding, but then we got a call from FMIL saying that FH's little brother had a football game on the rehearsal dinner and FFIL was going to go to the game with him and not attend the rehearsal dinner. Then they would try to borrow someone's car to drive down (3 hour drive) to the wedding. FH got very upset because it's important to him that his dad be there. He totally understands that his brother doesn't want to lose his spot on the team, but wanted his dad to be at the rehearsal. After a lot of arguments, FH convinced FFIL to let another family member go to game with his brother and FMIL let us know that FFIL would come down with them to attend the rehearsal and that he didn't know how much it meant to FH. I feel sad that FH was so hurt by this and I'm also worried that the day of the rehearsal FMIL will arrive and FFIL will have bailed out last minute. Trying to avoid stressing, but it's been weighing on my mind and I really want him to be there for FH. Any thoughts or advice?
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