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Kayla
Savvy October 2019

Rehearsal dinner invitations - yes or no?

Kayla, on June 27, 2019 at 1:24 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 32
Hi!

is everyone sending our rehearsal dinner invites or is it even necessary. Would love some feedback!

32 Comments

Latest activity by Judith, on July 1, 2019 at 2:05 AM
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I used evite for that purpose
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  • Lauren
    VIP September 2019
    Lauren ·
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    I am using Paperless Post, similar to Evite. The wedding invitations are very formal but the rehearsal dinner is just going to be immediate family, bridal party and SOs, very casual at a local restaurant. I plan to email out the invite a few weeks after the wedding invite.

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    Master January 2019
    Cassidy ·
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    I didn’t an invite so much as an insert in the invitation.
    I put one in with the bridal party invitations with the date, time, and location. No RSVP option.
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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    Are you doing a large rehearsal? If so invites are good.
    A small bridal party only rehearsal probably doesn't need invites
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  • CDickman
    VIP September 2019
    CDickman ·
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    That’s what we are doing
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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated August 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    Go with Evites and save $

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  • H
    Master July 2019
    Hannah Online ·
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    We did Evites. We are having about 40 people (bridal party, immediate family, and out of town guests).
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I don't think it's necessary, but we did them. We invited 75 people (around 60 coming) and had people RSVP by texting me.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    A physical invitation isn't necessary unless you're doing a formal dinner. An evite is just fine.

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  • Jasmine
    Savvy October 2020
    Jasmine ·
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    Not a must definitely up to you guys a text to and call is good too
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  • STBMrsMartin
    Dedicated October 2019
    STBMrsMartin ·
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    We have only bridal party, spouses, and grandparents coming to ours. We have about 35 people, we are doing word of mouth bc they are all local except one. My FPIL are throwing an out of town brunch the day after the wedding at their house. So we aren't wasting the money one the invites.

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    Devoted September 2020
    Anna ·
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    I am on the fence about this vs fb messaging everyone about rehearsal dinner. Don’t want anyone thinking it’s an open invite and bring their SO bc ours is strictly wedding party only .
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
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    We're not. I have a group chat with my bridesmaids and my FH has one with his groomsmen for coordinating events and details.

    Our parents already know about dinner because they helped coordinate it with us. And my FFIL is picking up some out of towners the night before who will also be joining us.

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  • Jo
    WeddingWire Administrator May 2015
    Jo ·
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    I like having things in writing (because I want to look back at it for reminders about times, directions etc) but it could be an email, evite, paperless post etc for sure

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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    We did ours as an insert card along with our invitations
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  • Yoice
    VIP March 2019
    Yoice ·
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    I use evite for this. I added to our wedding website and because I had a dress code (all white) I made sure to send to each guest a month before. All guest already knew of the all white welcome party but I never send the actual evite until a month before.
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  • Justine
    Super July 2019
    Justine ·
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    We made a facebook event and invited the wedding party/SOs!

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  • Arielle
    Expert August 2020
    Arielle ·
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    I agree with the evites unless you are having a lot of people at the rehearsal.

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  • SummerBrideInAutumn
    VIP October 2019
    SummerBrideInAutumn ·
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    In most cases, they definitely aren't necessary. We're having a small (25 people) plated dinner at our country club. I'm sending out invitations just because I found one I really like and I'll need people to RSVP with their meal choice.

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  • Erin
    Expert May 2020
    Erin ·
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    I'm not doing a rehearsal dinner invite because we're pretty close to everyone attending. We plan on just texting out the information

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