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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Rehearsal Dinner - Need to Have or Nice to Have?

Lynnie, on August 20, 2019 at 12:05 PM

Posted in Parties and Events 134

Rehearsal dinners have been a standard part of the wedding celebrations for a long time! But does this tradition need an update? Do you still need to have a rehearsal dinner, or do you consider it an extra 'nice to have' celebration? 🍽️ Photo from Next Event in Monterey, CA Next Question: Getting...

Rehearsal dinners have been a standard part of the wedding celebrations for a long time! But does this tradition need an update?

Do you still need to have a rehearsal dinner, or do you consider it an extra 'nice to have' celebration? 🍽️


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134 Comments

  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    The rehearsal is a need but the dinner is nice.

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  • Annie
    Savvy June 2020
    Annie ·
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    If you're having a rehearsal and lots of moving parts that people need to be aware of ahead of time, I'd say need to have it. We're not having a ceremony (eloping before our reception with friends/family), so no need for a rehearsal. We do plan to decorate and set up for the reception the night before though, so we will have a casual dinner and drinks with any family/wedding party members who are present.

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  • Andrea
    Devoted October 2020
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    We are not doing it. We will have place savers...find your name and sit down...lol

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  • Katie
    Dedicated April 2021
    Katie ·
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    Need to have, doesn’t have to be anything fancy but important to get together if you’re having a rehearsal
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  • Jessica
    Expert February 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Nice to have. We haven't gotten to the part about planning the rehearsal but we figured we'll invite those attending the rehearsal (only the need to be there people) to grab something to eat after but it will be casual and they won't have to attend.

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  • Tara
    VIP November 2016
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    I think it's a need to have! Having an actual rehearsal and going over the layout of the wedding and ceremony is necessary for sure. I think the dinner is your last chance to relax and hang out before the big day. It's a small way to show your appreciation for your bridal party and I think it's necessary for those involved.

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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Need to have

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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
    Sweet'N'Rhodes ·
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    Nice to have, but totally unnecessary in my opinion.

    I don't get rehearsing eating. Who needs to learn how to do that? Smiley atonished

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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    I think its nice to have. we had a rehearsal and then a BBQ at our air bnb after and the majority of bridal party didn't even come ....

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  • Tanyia
    Expert February 2020
    Tanyia ·
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    An extra nice to have but an extra "dont need to have" expense.

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  • Anna
    VIP October 2020
    Anna ·
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    Probably more of a need to have.

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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    If you're having your rehearsal the day before then it's a must. But only invite those involved in the ceremony along with their significant others. Some officiants now do rehearsals the day of the wedding, in which case a dinner is not necessary since you're going straight to the reception after.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    Need to have depending on if the ceremony is very staged.
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  • Emilia
    Super June 2019
    Emilia ·
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    Nice, but not necessary...

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