One of my bridesmaides asked if she could bring her "kind of boyfriend" to the rehearsal dinner. I told her that none of the WP is bringing their sig.o unless they're married, and that it was because of money purposes. She told me she just wont attend the very fancy dinner. She lives 5 minutes from the dinner location, and her excuse is "she doesn't want him to have to deal with her parents" even though that's what he'll be doing at the wedding... She is a family member, and has missed my bridal shower and Bachelorette party, and been pretty bad with doing what I've asked her to do. Should I be as upset and hurt as I am? Should I make her come? Can I tell her how upset I am? What do I do!?