So I had initially only intended to invite bridal party members, their spouses or plus ones, and immediate family to my rehearsal dinner.
My mom has been inviting people (even though she's not paying for it) and telling them that because they're flying in, there will be a space at the rehearsal dinner. I had to have some really uncomfortable conversations with people telling them there isn't room. 85% of our guests are coming in from out of state, and neither of my future in laws, nor FH and I can afford to basically host two weddings.
Now I feel guilty about the whole thing.
What is the proper etiquette here?
Thanks in advance.