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Rehearsal dinner

Sarah, on October 8, 2020 at 2:51 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 10
I would like to have my rehearsal dinner at a restaurant with my bridal party (bridesmaids-groomsmen) Are they suppose to pay for their own food? Or is my parents suppose to pay?

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Latest activity by Hanna, on October 9, 2020 at 1:53 AM
  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    The meal should be provided free of charge to your wedding party and their spouses (and anyone else you invite to the rehearsal dinner).
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  • Llcool_Kay
    Expert July 2021
    Llcool_Kay ·
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    Typically rehearsal dinner is paid for by either the couple or the parents of the couple to be. If you’re comfortable having that talk with your parents or your partner’s parents about paying for the rehearsal dinner then I would. Or ask your venue if they offer a space for you to have it there (that’s what I’ll be doing) and my parents are paying for the food for the dinner. Hope that helps
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa Online ·
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    Wedding party should not pay for their food/beverages at the rehearsal dinner. The dinner is to thank them for their participation in the rehearsal. This cost falls onto the couple to pay (unless parents offer to cover the cost of the rehearsal dinner).
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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    The bridal party shouldn't be responsible for paying for any wedding related events like a rehearsal dinner. The point of the rehearsal is to thank them for their participation. It is up to the couple otherwise someone else offers. For instance, my mother-in-law offered to pay. We would've paid otherwise.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    Hi Sarah! The rehearsal dinner is a hosted event (meaning your bridal party shouldn't pay!) and is frequently paid for by the couple themselves or the groom's parents. It all depends on your budget and personal situation!

    Here's some good general info about rehearsal dinner etiquette and some creative cost-saving tips: What is a Rehearsal Dinner?, How to Save Money on a Rehearsal Dinner, and 8 Creative Ideas For Your Rehearsal Dinner.

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  • Kia
    Devoted September 2021
    Kia ·
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    Typically the rehearsal dinner is paid for my the grooms side and everyone eats for free
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    You’d pay especially if they had to come to rehearsal
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  • Vicky
    VIP January 2020
    Vicky ·
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    You're supposed to pay, unless someone else offers to host.

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  • Alyssa
    Dedicated July 2021
    Alyssa ·
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    “You host, you pay” type of protocol!
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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    Guests should never have to open up their wallets at a rehearsal dinner. Unless your parents or your future spouse’s parents offer to host it, then you’d be responsible for covering the costs
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