Hi everyone! So my fiance and I recently picked out our venue and now we are dealing with my parents having some judgements since it's not going to take place in a Catholic church. My parents are extremely religious and my fiance and I are not. Even though we have our venue picked out (and they were there and fell in love with it), I find that my parents still would like my fiance and I to do a private ceremony in the church, and then have the wedding a couple weeks later for everyone to witness. This is not something we want to do, and don't feel like we should have to cater to my parents because of their beliefs. Not to mention, my fiance's family aren't Catholic. I was just hoping for some uplifting words on how to best handle this situation with my parents. I understand this is something that is important to them, but at the end of the day I find myself frustrated because it is my wedding and I feel that I should be able to get married the best way that represents my fiance and I. I apologize if this topic has been discussed before, I'm brand new to the site and this is my first post.
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