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Munkos
VIP September 2014

Returning a wedding gift - guilt?

Munkos, on September 24, 2014 at 12:43 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 24

We had a guest give us a very generous gift. It was two swavorski turtle doves. They're beautiful but they are NOT our thing at all. We don't do knick nacks or that sort of decoration, I have no where I can put them out on display that are safe from little hands (or paws). In all likelyhood they...

We had a guest give us a very generous gift. It was two swavorski turtle doves.

They're beautiful but they are NOT our thing at all. We don't do knick nacks or that sort of decoration, I have no where I can put them out on display that are safe from little hands (or paws). In all likelyhood they will just end up sitting in their box and collecting dust.

I want to return them, we could use that $260 to help buy some of the stuff on our registry - on the other hand I feel terribly guilty. Out of all the gifts we were given his was clearly the most thoughtful and had the most effort put into it. Most gave cash or bought off the registry; he went to the swavorski boutique and hand picked these for us.

What would you do? Keep them safely tucked away as a keep sake until I don't have to worry about toddlers and rambunctious dogs knocking things over or return them for something we could actually use?

24 Comments

  • Munkos
    VIP September 2014
    Munkos ·
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    That's an idea! Maybe there is something at swavorski we could use or would put out that we could exchange it for (I've never ever been in there, I have no idea hah!)

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  • Rebecca
    VIP June 2015
    Rebecca ·
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    Display them somewhere in your home for a few days, write a thank you note and say that they are so beautiful, and you appreciate the care that he put into selecting them, and that way if by chance he asks - which no one should - "Where did you put them?" you can honestly say "On the bedroom dresser", or whatever. And that will not be a lie - you just omit the fact that you returned them a week later. You can even take a photo of them sitting there if you want, and like you say - accidents happen, right? Smiley winking

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  • Heather A
    Master September 2014
    Heather A ·
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    The gift receipt means you can return or exchange it. It does not mean theyre going to give your money back to go buy registry stuff elsewhere. We do gift receipts all the time for people...of course you can return or exchange it...but by return or exchange we mean return for store credit or exchange for something else in the store. Unless you are the purchaser, then we will put it back on your card. Im being a debbie downer...but i HIGHLY doubt they will return it for cash money.

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  • StitchingBride
    Master October 2014
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    Hey how about some nice crystal jewelry? could go great with your wedding look. had I given the gift, I would be much more thrilled if you used it to get jewelry that you wore for something special! Smiley smile

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