Ring Bearer and Flower Girl gifts??

I got the girls a little bracelet, but I put FH in charge of the ring bearer gift (his nephew) and I honestly don't think he said got anything.

You could let them do that but that's not really a gift. It's supposed to be something non-wedding related to show your appreciation of them being in your wedding. We got all of our remote control cars (we had 2 ring bearers and 2 flower girls) and they all loved them. Doesn't have to break the bank but they should be treated like the other bridal party members you are buying gifts for since they are in the wedding too.

Are you giving the rest of your bridal party gifts? If so, it would be very nice to include these little ones, too, especially if you are passing out prezzies in front of them.

It need not be a large, expensive gift, more like a keepsake.

One of my bridesmaids gave her flower girl (her niece) a small gift and then she also gave her (more so her parents) one of those handkerchiefs that had an embroidered message on it so she can use it someday for her wedding as her "something old." I thought that was a really nice gift and the flower girl's mother loved it too.

Okay this is good to know! We are getting our bridal party and parents gifts so I guess it would make sense to get the kids gifts too.

@Tina, If it's a keepsake it probably wouldn't be a toy, right? More of something they can remember the day by over the years? Like a necklace or a swiss army knife?

Either is fine. My flower girl of almost 40 years ago posted her pic not long ago. Now her daughter wears the necklace

That's so sweet! Okay, I think keepsake jewelry is the way to go for the girls.

Did anybody have any good ideas for the boys? We have 3 of them (all nephews we're close to), and each will be carrying one of our rings (our wedding rings and my engagement one so that they're feeling equally "important").

My boys received Mickey Mouse watches once upon a time and still have them, over 25 years later.

When my sis, cousin and I were the kids in our uncle's wedding, we got the best gift - Sesame Street sleeping bags! They were sleepover party staples for YEARS and we loved them to bits. Got way more use than any keepsake jewelry I ever owned, which mostly sat in a box, and by the time I took an interest in it was too small to wear.

Our RB will get a Legos set, since he's obsessed with them. Not sure for the FG, she's the best man's daughter so I'll let him and fiance handle it.

You don't have to give them gifts. I will be though. Gift giving is a part of my love language. So it's important to me. And my ring bearers bday is 2 days after my wedding

I'm going to make little goody baskets for our kiddos with coloring books and stuff like that. That away its also something that might keep them entertained at times too!!

I don't think you have to, but for me our daughter is our flower girl so I really wanted to get her something. She's 3, so I bought her a Bride Barbie and a bracelet that has a flower girl charm on it.

My flower girls are going to be too young for jewelry IMO so I'm making them build-a-bears because what toddler doesn't love stuffed animals?! Lol our ring bearer is going to be 10 and we're getting him a wallet with his initials on it ( his mom gave the idea)

I gave mine cute little story books. I wrote a note in the front cover with the date and to thank them Not that they care about the note now... haha

You can find Flower Girl and Ring bearer specific storybooks on Amazon

I got the ring bearer an engraved baseball bat and the flower girls a necklace with their initial and a little wristlet

I'm planning on doing an embroidered handkerchief for my 3 flower girls as a PP said and am also planning on getting the girls and the two ring bearers piggy banks so they can save money for their wedding someday. I will also get them a toy or something more relevant for their age now to round it out.

You don't have to give them a gift, but I love spoiling my niece and nephew and want to thank them for participating. I got my niece a bracelet to go with her dress (she loves jewelry) and my nephew a custom baseball bat, with his name, ring bearer, and our date inscribed on it.

I just have a flower girl, but am getting her a tote bag with her name on it like the BMs, a getting ready button down (it's too cute), a pearl bracelet and thinking of putting activity books or something in the tote bag too in case they want them for the reception. I think she will be on the dance floor,though! haha

I got a gift for each of mine. We are having a beach wedding and they are pretty much the only kids coming so I felt like I needed to get them something fun for them to do for the weekend. We got ours sand buckets and filled it with coloring books etc.

We're giving our girls a necklace and earring set and our boy Star Wars cufflinks. I'm also going to have goodie bags of some kind of the kids table with some just for fun stuff.