So this is something I never though I would encounter as my ring is absolutely perfect in my eyes, it's of a reasonable cost, and my husband went through a lot to make sure I had it because it's the only one of 100+ that I "tried on" or looked at that I fell in love with.
Well we're a young couple (married at 18 when he was 20, now I'm 20 and he's 22), so obviously all my friends are just starting to get engaged now too, or preparing for the engagement that they're hoping for with their significant others in the near future, and they are all picking out their rings right about now. I'm extremely happy for each of them, and so ecstatic that they're getting to this stage in life, but it seems as though they're just turning it into a competition...
There is one girl in particular that actually coincidentally fell in love with the exact same engagement ring as mine, but in rose gold (it's a popular ring so this didn't bother me at all, I was actually quite happy for her). And when she showed me online and I pointed this out, she literally said to me, "Oh. Yeah, but mine will have a way bigger rock on it than that." Like..? I didn't think that was what mattered.. It certainly didn't to me when I chose it.
I even have another friend that messaged me asking how much my ring cost, and when I ask why she wanted to know (because it's not something I choose to just advertise) she said, "I wanted to see if mine is more expensive than yours LOL."
Has anyone else had this issue being married/engaged before all of their friends?? I didn't think this was gonna be a thing but apparently I was wrong lol. I feel kind of like they're all borderline shaming my ring as though I'm supposed to go running to my husband and demand a newer, bigger, more expensive one, or like he didn't work his a** off to get me this one.
On a side note: he did try to get me a bigger ring, but my finger is a size 4, so giant rings just look gaudy on me lol plus this one I fell in LOVE with!
ring in the box
from engagement photos