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WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Ring Shopping: Modern or Traditional?

Lynnie, on April 23, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Parties and Events 181

Who picked out your engagement ring? Were you involved in the shopping process, or was it a complete surprise? Traditionally the bride had no input on her new rock, but nowadays 20% of couples pick out the engagement ring together! Did you take the modern or traditional approach to ring...

Who picked out your engagement ring? Were you involved in the shopping process, or was it a complete surprise? Smiley diamond

Traditionally the bride had no input on her new rock, but nowadays 20% of couples pick out the engagement ring together! Did you take the modern or traditional approach to ring shopping?


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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    FH picked out the ring himself, and though it's beautiful it's not my style so I kind of wish past me hadn't been so adamant that the proposal be traditional. I just really didn't want a diamond, but he had in his head from his family that an engagement ring has to be diamond.


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  • Tonia
    Expert October 2019
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    We went ring shopping initially. But when he proposed, the ring was not we picked. It was way better!

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  • G
    Dedicated November 2021
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    He took me to figure out what i wanted. picked out my must haves (emerald shape) and then we walked through and looked at different settings and talked about what we liked and didnt like. we have similar taste so i wasnt too worried. he didnt propose with my ring (sentimental story) but when he gave me my ring i definitely teared up. it's perfect!

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  • Kaylalynn
    Savvy August 2019
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    He surprised me with what he knew I would love and he was right!!!
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  • Emily
    Savvy September 2019
    Emily ·
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    Traditional
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  • Renee
    Super October 2020
    Renee ·
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    My fh had a sapphire from his great grandmother that he had set in a ring he designed. It has a diamond on each side of it. It's beautiful. He did a wonderful job designing it and I love that it has sentimental value to it as well

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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    We went to the store together and FH let me pick out my ring.
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  • Becca
    Devoted October 2019
    Becca ·
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    We picked it out together online.
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  • Maggie
    Super April 2020
    Maggie ·
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    Traditional mostly- my Fh knew the style I liked as I like looking at rings when we’re on vacation- not engagement just different rings- and he knew I preferred sapphire to diamond for the main gem. He got me an oval sapphire flanked by two small diamonds and my wedding band is white sapphires. Absolutely in love!
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  • Krystin
    Expert October 2019
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    FH picked it out all on his own Smiley smile We were on a cruise and the very first night I went to take a nap (jet lag) and in the two hours I slept, FH had bought me a ring with his mama buy his side! Through the entire trip, he kept taking me into the jeweler's to look at jewelry because he wanted to get me "something nice for Christmas" and he needed ideas. We don't usually jewelry shop together lol I find it awkward for me. I joked with him about just getting me a ring because I don't really wear jewelry. Little did I know, 3 weeks later he would pop the question with the ring he had THE ENTIRE TIME lol Smiley heart

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  • M
    Beginner October 2019
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    Modern. I went with him, but he picked out the ring and asked me if I liked it. He was going to do it traditionally, but the store had closed by the time he got there. So he just went ahead an proposed without the ring! ❤️
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  • Miosotys
    Dedicated January 2020
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    Modern! I ring shopped on my own for months! (I’m very indecisive). When I narrowed it down to 2 I told him to pick which one he liked best. Luckily he picked the one I loved! We went to go buy it together, and I even knew when he was going to propose. 😂
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  • Waldy
    Devoted October 2020
    Waldy ·
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    Modern! I picked it myself 🤣😂 I had been dropping hints, leave browsing histories up, sending links to my best friend in case he went to her. In the end, we went to the jewelry store together to pick up the ring I liked. They didn't have it, so we shopped around together, but we ultimately ordered the original ring online (it was a set). We will do the same for his ring, when the time comes.

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  • D
    Dedicated July 2019
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    Traditional! I had no idea he was going to even propose. He also got me a traditional round solitaire and it’s perfect ♥️
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  • Alyssa
    Dedicated September 2019
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    My fiance went onto my pinterest board without me knowing to see the rings i had picked out on there. he then went to pick it out and literally picked out the exact style of ring i always wanted. i had no involvement in the process and he had the ring for 3 months before he proposed.

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  • Dedicated September 2024
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    It was 50/50. He bought me two rings, the first ring was a complete surprise, but I was allergic to it so FH wanted to get me another ring. He didn't know what to get me the second time around so I helped him pick.
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  • Brittany
    Dedicated August 2020
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    We picked the ring out together, he knows that I’m extremely picky.
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  • Amanda
    Dedicated August 2021
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    I knew what I liked, but ended up having zero say because he proposed with a ring left to him by his grandmother, which his great grandfather had made!

    It's such a sweet story and a super special ring that I will definitely treasure forever.

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  • Macy
    Expert September 2019
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    I had no idea it was going to happen he picked it out, and set up the whole proposal
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  • Heather
    Dedicated July 2020
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    I sent him pictures of rings I liked. We looked at rings together and he made sure of what I liked then had it custom made!
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