Ring Sizing

Does anyone else’s engagement ring leave an indention on their finger? Most of the time it feels comfortable, but sometimes it feels pretty tight. Also, does anyone else’s wedding band feel way different than their engagement ring even though they’re supposed to be a matching set? I’ve tried my wedding band on a few times and with both rings on my fingers it’s really tight but with just one of them it feels fine. I’ve gotten it sized up a quarter of a size because of that (I want to be able to wear both rings at the same time after the wedding and still be comfortable) but I think I might have to get them sized up again. I just don’t want to spend too much money, give up my rings to get it done, or damage my rings by sizing too much. Advice please?!!!