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Ashley
Expert October 2021

rsvp blow off

Ashley, on October 4, 2021 at 2:24 PM

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Well friends, rsvp deadline is coming up, so I’ve been working on tracking down missing RSVPs. Ive been left on “read” with a few people, which is incredibly frustrating. What’s the appropriate next step, would you say? Do I ask again, or just move on and mark them as declined? The background is...
Well friends, rsvp deadline is coming up, so I’ve been working on tracking down missing RSVPs. Ive been left on “read” with a few people, which is incredibly frustrating. What’s the appropriate next step, would you say? Do I ask again, or just move on and mark them as declined?


The background is that we postponed from 2020 to this year. 2020 save the date as well as a change the date was sent out. Invites sent out last month. And I did digital rsvps to try and avoid any issues, but i suppose that was wishful thinking 😅 frankly, I just want to move on to more positive parts of the process, but maybe I’m being unreasonable.
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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    Just to clarify, the dead line was this past weekend, I need to have my count in by Friday morning. Gave myself just a little less than a week to chase people down.
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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    Y’all are so quick! Just to clarify, the deadline was this past week, I need to get my numbers in by Friday morning. Figured a little less than a week to chase people down was an acceptable timeline 😅


    Also, I’ve gone ahead and sent out additional messages, including a new deadline. Wasn’t even passive aggressive, I’m so proud of myself 😂😂

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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    I did wait until after. I was going back and forth between sending another request or just moving on. My luck they’d show up anyways lol 😅
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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    It was this past weekend, not trying to create extra work for myself lol I need to get my numbers in by Friday
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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    Deadline was this past weekend. I was just going back and forth on whether or not I bother with an additional message. I sent one anyways, with a new deadline of tomorrow. See what happens now 😅
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Gotcha. In your original post, you said deadline is coming up so I assumed that meant RSVP deadline. Hopefully people get back to you soon!
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    Devoted June 2023
    bevbabe ·
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    I'm not begging people to come to my wedding so at that point I'm marking them as declined. I'd send a message saying, "Hi Jane, due to the deadlines from the venders and not hearing back from you after the RSVP date I've had to mark you as declined. Thank you for considering our invitation and I hope you have a great day."

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  • Emma
    Savvy August 2022
    Emma ·
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    You need me to be a pain in the butt and call people for you?? lol
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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    I was down to 3 couples this morning! 2 I’m marking off, 1 I’m waiting on a call back. So I’ll just be over… holding my breath some more 😅😬
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  • Emma
    Savvy August 2022
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    Haha- you let me know if you need me! i can be pretty annoying lol
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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    You’re the best! 😂🙌🏼
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  • Emma
    Savvy August 2022
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    Haha! i got your back! give me some numbers and i’ll be blowing people up🤣🤣
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