I realize people have lives and other things going on, but when we postponed our wedding 2x and gave people ample notice, I expected more people to accept rather than decline… and what takes people so long to go online to RSVP?! It’s been 2 weeks and we only 60/150 in.
Most of my friends are coming, but my FH friends from law school/work and our family/friends who live out of state (who have the financial means) have declined. Some with valid reasons like giving birth but some with no reason at all. It feels kind of poopy to get the reject notice and I can’t help but take it personal. FH doesn’t mind.. and half these people he hasn’t seen in YEARS but still talks to… so I guess I can understand people not wanting to make the effort esp. if they have kids to deal with. I still can’t helped but be annoyed - like you had all this time to plan and you didn’t? Or didn’t want to? Boo!!! LOL. Idk. Anyone else feeling down by this?