We invited 125 guests to our wedding 10/23. I set the RSVP for 9/15. Over half of the guests have not replied as of today 9/9 (have a few days still).
The invites and RSVPS are all electronic. It's a fairly casual event but we do need to plan since we are making all the food apart from the cake. It's also busy season for work so will try to get things in order as much as we can before the big week. A lot of people I think assume we know they are coming, but I have no idea on +1s and stuff.
When can I start cracking the whip a bit and what would you do- contact people individually? Send out a reminder email thing (our e-vite thing sets that up for us if we want)? etc. Also I know some people probably are seeing how things are with covid, but we do need to plan.