So our wedding is just under a month away and our RSVP cards are starting to come back. One in particular one that came back was from my fiance's aunt and she listed 17 additional guests will be attending, we invited her and his cousin only on the invite with 1 addition guest each. It says 17! I told my fiance I think that it is really rude to just assume you can bring that many additional guests and without calling first to see if that was ok. We decided on only 50 guests with give or take 5 people. We have already put a deposit down with the catering company and we have to give the final head count in about a week and they take up most of the spots and we have not even got all the RSVP cards back yet. My fiance said it could maybe be a mistake and I asked him call her and find out because we cannot accommodate that many and it will be way over budget. He said we cant uninvite them but I say yes I can. How do you deal with this kind of situation in a nice way?
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