I'm at a loss on what to do. My fiance and I are a month out from our wedding, and his parents have now asked us for the 3rd time to accommodate family members on his side that weren't originally on our guest list. Mind you, they approved this list and made it clear this is the list we were going off of for the invitations. Both my fiance and I tried to explain very nicely that we would need to evaluate where our head count was at before seeing if we could fit more people in; then they started being very condescending towards me and rude and told me to "get over it and accommodate." I'm very upset by their behavior, and it feels like they are making this wedding all about them when it is about my soon to be husband and myself. This is starting to feel more like a family reunion than a wedding. The situation has made me very uncomfortable and I quite frankly don't want his parents anywhere near me on wedding day. Has anyone dealt with something like this and how did you handle it? We are already stressed about final vendor payments and it being so close to our day that this was the last thing we needed...
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