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Futuremrsw
Super October 2015

Rules for the bachelor party?

Futuremrsw, on July 3, 2015 at 9:39 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 85

So I was listening to the Kane show on hot995 today on my way home from work and there was this segment about this female caller who wanted to know if her rules for her FH's bachelor party were crazy.

They included:

No Shots

No social media posts after 7pm

No strippers

No tattoos

The best man has to contact her every hour to update her on what they are doing

No drugs

And when they have sex for the first time after he gets home from his bachelor party, they have to do it with the lights on so she can inspect every inch of him for any incriminating marks.

She "says" she trusts him- I think shes crazy.

As for my FH, I don't give a damn what he does as long as he doesn't cheat. Go have fun, get crazy. I trust him and his friends and I know he will make good decisions since we respect each other.

Im curious what you guys think.... do you have any rules for your FH/FW prior to their bachelor/bachelorette party?

85 Comments

Latest activity by Stephanie, on April 8, 2019 at 6:09 PM
  • Laura Marie
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    Laura Marie ·
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    This sounds like a divorce waiting to happen. No social media posts after 7pm? What is the point of that?

    I told my FH not to die/injure himself, spend all his money, or bring anything home. Seemed fair enough.

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  • FinallyMrsSloan
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    Rules for a bachelor party? Good luck with that crazy lady. Only one rule and it was an unspoken rule: don't cheat.

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  • FMM
    Master January 2016
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    Hell no. That is fucked up.

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  • Mrs. Lav
    Master November 2015
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    I'm guessing she didn't give him a hall pass...

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  • Futuremrsw
    Super October 2015
    Futuremrsw ·
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    I know right?! One person messaged Kane to say that the chick was gonna be on tinder soon!

    Seriously, how can you trust your guy but put in all these stupid rules? I wouldn't follow a single one of them (well maybe minus the tattoo one) but seriously? No shots? Every hour updates? Puhlease

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  • 8815wedding
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    I had the same "rules" as @Laura. Don't die or end up in the hospital, that's basically it. Don't cheat or do anything extremely stupid kind of went without saying.

    FH had his bachelor party the same day as my bachelorette party, so I was pretty distracted the entire time and didn't really care what they did as long as they were having fun.

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  • Futuremrsw
    Super October 2015
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    @futuremrslav HAHAHA no I guess he did not luck out!

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  • Laura Marie
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    That can't be a healthy relationship. I cannot imagine what their life is like. I wonder if he is just as controlling...and why his friends aren't like "WTF". Bachelor/bachelorette parties don't have to be crazy if that isn't your thing - but this is just silly.

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  • Tori
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    No. I trust FH & I trust his friends. They wouldn't plan anything that would hurt our relationship & FH wouldn't do it if they did. Even if he is completely drunk.

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  • FinallyMrsSloan
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    I wonder if there will be a caller on Monday saying he called off the wedding? I mean who can live with that many rules?

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  • Futuremrsw
    Super October 2015
    Futuremrsw ·
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    I know @Laura I mean this can not possibly be a new thing to him. She must have done stuff like this before since you would HOPE he knows what hes marrying.

    @finallymrssloan I literally LOL'd at that

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  • OMW
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    My one rule was don't come home smelling like stripper.

    I didn't call him, I didn't have his guys call me, nothing. I trusted him. Afterwards, they stayed at a friend's house, and he did indeed get a shower in and did not smell like stripper when he came home.

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  • JamieLynn
    Master June 2016
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    Surely he is used to these types of, "rules". She sounds like a pain to live with. I can't imagine putting up with that crap on a daily basis.

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  • FutureMrsCrane
    Master October 2015
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    Shots are wonderful; why not shots? I I don't know which one is weirder- no social media posts after 7pm or having to keep the lights on. If her FH doesn't know by now that drugs aren't okay with her, there's a problem. She's a wacko. My FH is going to see a Packers game. Nothing wild and crazy happening there. Maybe I should think about making him a crazy set of rules though just in case (kidding, of course).

    Edited: I bet this bride would kill her FH if she was in my position- FH's bachelor party/football game is the day of my bridal shower. I couldn't care less that he won't be able to show up at the end of it.

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  • Original VC
    Master July 2015
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    Holy crap, does the fiance know about those rules? What the hell?

    If anybody listened to me, my only rule would be that his GM/friends didn't force him to over-drink. I trust him and know he knows how to drink, but I hate when they order endless shot rounds and yell "HEY HINKY, IF YOU DON'T DRINK WITH US YOU'RE A PUSS!" And no, we're not 21 Smiley sad

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  • Caroline
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    It sounds like she doesn't trust her FH to make good decisions on her own - that's not the kind of foundation I'd like to build a marriage on.

    Good luck to him.

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  • lakegirl8387
    Devoted October 2015
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    That doesn't sound like the rules of someone that trusts her man. My FH will be spending the night with the guys at the casino (about an hour away). Only rule is "Don't lose the house please" lol

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  • Laura Marie
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    @VC we're not 21 either and FH's friends do that, too. Men.

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  • KellySD
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    If it was up to FH he'd have one beer, MAYBE two and be in bed by 11 at his Bachelor party. This past weekend I told his GMs that I give them "permission" (obviously a joke - FH can do what he wants) to go crazy - there are no rules and they should make sure he has a great time. This lady sounds crazy.

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  • JenniferandRick
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    Well that marriage will last years. :-/

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