Rules for the bachelor party?

@Laura: I know! My dad doesn't drink so I wasn't aware of how guys keep being like that... forever! Lol

Dude I love shots! I don't see anything wrong with shots.

and the group of guys he will be going with are all similar to him, in they don't need to go crazy to have a good time. In fact, my FH is known for being a scrooge at strip clubs and doesn't do lap dances when he does go out with his friends for whatever occasion. It doesn't bother me that he goes bc I know its really not his scene anyways. So why worry?

My "rules" were don't die, and don't cheat (duh). FH has already told me that he'll pretty much be out of touch while he's at his bachelor party, which is totally cool with me!

Whats wrong with strippers? I let FH go to strip clubs alone. We go together. I think it's a fun way to spice up the bedroom. Funny part is FH didn't go to a strip club for his bachelor party.

I just hope my fiancé doesn't drink much because he really can't handle alcohol and I don't feel like nursing him for the two days following his bachelor party. Seriously, if he drinks anything besides beer, he is useless for at least the next day.

I hate when girls have rules for their FH's Bach party. It really shows how much you don't trust each other. Our friend said that if her FH didn't get any strippers for his Bach party, he would get a fancy watch. And he got it. But FH told me about it and laughed and said "What do I get for mine?" And I said to him "Bitch, I don't have any money. Do whatever you want." Lol. Whenever he leaves for trips I jokingly say "Don't bring back an STD" but that's it. Never rules. I don't own him. I'm trying to get him to have a crazier party than he is expecting, though. I want him to have a great time and be happy.

And also, I'm sure the Best Man will be ecstatic to call her EVERY HOUR to update them on what they are doing. Because what guy doesn't love calling his friend's fiancé during his bachelor party to "check in"....

*facepalm*

WTH? My rule was have fun. I tryst FH completely. Who says no strippers and no shots? She sounds like an untrusting prude.

Yea, thats cray-cray. I just said, come home in one piece! lol. And THAT only was a "rule" because at his friend's bachelor party last year, he got a HORRIBLE sunburn AND one of his friends jumped on his back for a piggy-back ride on their way home from the bar and FH ended up flat-faced on the sidewalk and smashed up his face.

I more gave myself rules: no texting FH while he's at his bachelor party. I did break the rule because our cousin had a baby.

My FH has friends whose SOs tell them when to come home, tell them when they can and can not go out (like they ask permission), and a few of them if they want to go out they have to take their girls out on a date before. All of which I think it stupid. I think it speaks volumes about their rship though. Those men may not be trust worthy IDK. But those women are insecure. He has to take you out before he can go out with friends? Like is he your whole life? If your rship that bad that he doesnt take you out without an ultimatum. And sometimes they take them out just so later they wont be as mad if they ask to go out. Its funny to me. Well lets just say it makes me seem like the best SO ever to his friends. Sadly my FH is a bad influence on them, so that doesnt help.

That's crazy!

Why would you marry someone you feel the need to make rules for?

Some of these were kind of unspoken rules between DH and I, but because we were both on the same page about them.

Same rules apply whether he's going out for a few drinks with the guys or going to his bachelor party. No difference.

If you need to "inspect" your partner, then clearly something is wrong. Lol

I love the Kane show lol. I didn't put rules on his bachelor party. I just asked for no strippers.

LOL! CRAZY! Sometimes I feel like its not a necessarily "trust" issue and more of a "control" issue.

I was going to say that's fucked up but a few people beat me to it. If you need to make rules or have inspections obviously someone isn't ready to settle down and get married. I don't understand people like that, if there's no trust it's not that great of a relationship.

My only "rules" were in case he got SO blackout drunk he didn't honestly know what he was doing. Don't cheat, try to stay out of jail, and come home alive.

I honestly wanted H to get flirted with, drink a bunch, etc. He's such a good man, I wanted him to feel like a stud with cute girls dancing with him and buying him drinks. By dancing, I mean two stepping, because they went to a country bar. But wherever they went, I WANTED girls to pay him attention. He's so unassuming, I was hoping for a big party night for him. Which he got! He had so much fun, and I was happy for that.

I hate the concept of bachelor parties anyway, but if there is going to be one, stay out of it.

Wow crazy! I only have one rule and that's don't cheat. The other day, this girl called the radio saying that her FH had cheated on her during his bachelor party while he was in Vegas. He had accidentally dialed her and she heard him hooking up w/a hooker! It was so bad they called him and his mom on the radio and she was getting married in 3 weeks so she called everything off. That might be her this time around...jk! That's cray cray. Too many rules will want to make him do something!