Save the date and invites

You should have sent save the dates already, 6 months before your wedding. Mail your wedding invites 6-8 weeks before your wedding and have RSVP's be due like 2-3 weeks before your wedding

View Quoted Comment I know I have should been sent it out, but due to covid and this place where I want it at...and my state just lifted some restrictions...time is ticking....I've been planning since 2018...

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Totally understand, good luck and congrats!

Save the dates are sent 6 months prior. At this point, just send invites at standard 6-8 weeks. Most people don't know until 3-4 weeks prior if they can even take time off.

At this point, I would probably just send out a digital/email Save the Date if you haven't already. Then just skip ahead to formal invites about eight weeks before your wedding date. The RSVP really depends on when your vendors need a final guest count. Find out when that is, and then make your RSVP date a week earlier so you have time to call people who miss the iniital deadline.

View Quoted Comment Thanks, yall gave me the best advice on skipping save the dates....what a relief...now onto invites....

I wouldn't bother sending Save the Dates since your wedding is only 4 months away. Send invitations 6-8 weeks prior