Hello all: I wanted to see what others are doing as far as save the dates. My understanding is that they do not have to match your invitations in color or theme or in any way at all, and can be pretty light hearted and casual. So we’re gonna do something fun and different from our lovely floral invitations.. My question is when you send your save the date card, I’m reading that in that envelope, you should put an enclosure card to notify people if the wedding/reception is adults only as well as information or an enclosure card about accommodations. Is that the case ?
Do you send that with the save the date card instead of waiting until you send the invites since that doesn’t give people much notice of the situation? And would you send it again when you send the invitation? There isn’t room to put it on the save the date card so do you order enclosure cards?
I am also reading that when you use enclosure cards, they should match invitations which would make no sense if my save the dates don’t match my invitations. This is all just information I’m reading online, so I guess I can always do what I want , but I just want it to look nice and I kind of like to do things the proper way so would love advice. I think it’s very important for me to make sure that the people I am inviting are very aware that children cannot come and I feel like that information should be given very early on versus waiting until invites go out.
