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Savvy April 2018

Save the dates without a photo

cLe2018, on July 11, 2017 at 6:29 PM

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I don't know why but I feel pressure to put a photo of my FH and I on our save the dates. Is it weird to send them without a photo?

I don't know why but I feel pressure to put a photo of my FH and I on our save the dates. Is it weird to send them without a photo?

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  • Kimberly
    VIP March 2018
    Kimberly ·
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    Ordering ours soon and they will most definitely not have our picture. They'll be similar to the invites I'm looking to order later and match our color scheme

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  • Mrs.Soon2Be
    Super August 2017
    Mrs.Soon2Be ·
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    Ours did not have a photo on it.

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  • PHXBride
    Expert February 2018
    PHXBride ·
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    Mine didn't have a photo, I found vintage style travel postcards on Zazzle that I used, I loved them!

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  • StPaulGal
    Master July 2017
    StPaulGal ·
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    Does everyone who is invited know both of you? It was important to us to have a photo because neither of us had met the other's extended family.

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  • S
    Expert December 2017
    Sandra ·
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    Ours didn't have a photo . I ordered them from vista print . They reminded me of the night sky with all the stars and kind of tied into our venue. They looked pretty classy in my opinion. I don't think it's weird at all .


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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    I thought the same thing but didn't want to wait for our engagement shoot (good thing it had to be rescheduled four times). Find something cute and send it along!

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  • lawn_flamingo
    Devoted September 2017
    lawn_flamingo ·
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    I see plenty without photos. I only wanted a photo on ours because we invited relatives I've never met, and I'd like them to know what I look like before hand.

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  • Lovecat
    Expert September 2017
    Lovecat ·
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    I absolutely did not want to send out a photo of us staring goopily at each other! I designed our STD postcards; the front was an image of a vintage map of our hometown that was a free download from the Library of Congress's website, and the back had the wedding deets. I had them printed at a local shop.

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  • Stephanie
    Super May 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    Totally up to you weather to have a photo or not Smiley smile

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  • AD2AP
    VIP June 2018
    AD2AP ·
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    @Magnolia - That is extremely rude to say, I am having a picture of my FH and I on our save the dates and I am not "extremely into myself."

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  • Charlene
    Dedicated April 2018
    Charlene ·
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    No it's not weird. I sent mine out last month without pictures. Everyone said they were nice.

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  • Deanna
    VIP October 2018
    Deanna ·
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    Ours don't have them. I put all of our engagement pictures on our wedding website so if guests want to see them they can go there and look at them Smiley smile

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  • Jessica
    Super April 2018
    Jessica ·
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    Ours doesn't have a photo and I don't think it's weird. I've seen plenty without them! Don't feel pressured!

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  • Carolyn
    Super September 2017
    Carolyn ·
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    We didn't have a photo on ours and ended up using one for invitations instead. Smiley smile I guess because it was just a save the date, we didn't feel the need to go that extra mile. So no pressure, you do you! Smiley smile

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  • Talullah
    VIP May 2018
    Talullah ·
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    I think it's perfectly fine not to do a photo. I don't think I'm doing a photo on mine.

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  • Stephannie
    Super December 2017
    Stephannie ·
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    Ours did not have a photo. I do not think it is odd at all. I love all types of save the dates though. Attached is ours!


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  • Stephannie
    Super December 2017
    Stephannie ·
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    @jessica thank you! My best friend is a graphic designer and does invitations on the side (don't worry I am paying her) so I just let her have at it with the type of vibe we are going for; Art Deco/Art Nouveau and she killed it!

    She will be doing our invitation suite as well - and with my FH also being an artist, its been hard pleasing him with design stuff (he's had a say in every decision we have made) and he was blown away with her work!

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  • R
    Savvy July 2018
    Robin ·
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    I dont think it's weird to not have photo on save the dates...as cute as it may be, I understand that it can become costly. As for myself, I would love to do the ones with photos however its just not in the budget. I am actually sending my save the dates through email....so I totally understand where you're coming from.

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  • R
    Savvy July 2018
    Robin ·
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    There are also a lot of ways to make save the dates without having a photo on them. Good luck ! Smiley smile

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  • Bridezilla
    Just Said Yes May 2018
    Bridezilla ·
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    Great responses. We will not be including a photo on our STDs either. I'd rather display our engagement photos on our wedding website instead.

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