Save the dates

Probably a mail issue. If you have extras, you could send another one.

You never know, of course, but there's no doubt that mail is not infrequently lost by the post office. I'd give it a couple of weeks to be sure, then send a new one.

We had that happen a couple times to us too.. we ended up just sending another one and asking the couple to confirm they received it!

View Quoted Comment Thanks Lauren I’ll do that too! Any tips on how to track the invitations? I feel like those are more important because I need to know how’s attending or not

View Quoted Comment You will know who is attending by who sends back their RSVP

View Quoted Comment So should I just assume that whoever doesn’t send it back isn’t coming or should I reach them to double check?

View Quoted Comment All invited guests should send back the RSVP either way. They will either mark yes, they plan to attend; or no, they do not plan to attend. If somebody doesn’t send one back at all, you would reach out to them after the RSVP deadline has passed.

Most of them I just verified their address for the invites and verbally told them the date.

We avoided this because in our social circles, save the dates are sent over the phone or in person. None of the information was able to get lost. It has worked for generations with no problems. For those whose numbers we don’t have, we sent the information online via email or instant messenger how we usually communicate.