When we started planning I didn’t want a wedding party (wanted to save myself the headache) But, Britany did. I compromised. Told her we’d both have ONE person. My sister as MOH, one of her best friends as her BM. Well, she has a male & female best friend. Her female best friend wants to be apart of the wedding as well. Britany adds her. (I’m OCD & I can’t handle anything odd) ironically our wedding is on a odd date, but that’s neither here nor there.
Anyway, I told her I’d add my brother so we’d both have two people. She told me NO. She doesn’t want my brother in the wedding bc she doesn’t want HER siblings to feel bad that I have both of my siblings. In which, that has NOTHING to do with me. I told her she can’t tell me who I can have standing with me, if I want my siblings, then I can have them. Do I need two people because she has two? YES. Does your future spouse have a say so in who’s standing with you? Oh and BTW; her and my brother are really close.
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