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Savvy September 2021

Seating Debate

Katie, on August 26, 2020 at 10:32 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 10

When creating your seating arrangements, do you put family close to the bridal party's table, or the significant others of the bridal party? I feel like you HAVE to put the family closest, right? But I've been in weddings where they put friends up super close and I don't want to make people feel isolated by being in the back. The problem is doubled by the fact both our parents are divorced, so we have 4 family tables instead of two and our venue has a bit of a strange layout...

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Latest activity by Tiante, on August 26, 2020 at 12:50 PM
  • Marcia
    Expert March 2021
    Marcia ·
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    Family should be in front. If you are worried that the bridal party will be split up from their dates, you should reconsider having a head table and instead go for a sweetheart table
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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    I think everybody does this differently. You should choose whatever layout works best/makes the most sense for you! We will be seating our wedding party’s significant others next to them at the same table. Parents & siblings will be seated close to us & the wedding party.
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    We had a sweetheart table and then the tables closest to us were our parents/grandparents, then close friends (i.e. bridal party members), then more distant family/friends (although distant is used loosely here since everyone we invited we were close to).
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I sat in a table with our parties and their significant others. but our families were at a close by table

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  • Bo Miller
    Expert December 2020
    Bo Miller ·
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    We are planning a sweetheart table for this exact reason! Don't want anyone to feel isolated or excluded.

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  • Molly
    VIP September 2020
    Molly ·
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    I am have a sweetheart table. I have divorced parents to so I will have them on opposite sides of the sweetheart table. Then the bridal party is scattered throughout the tables so they can sit with the people they know best.

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  • Kimberly
    Expert October 2019
    Kimberly ·
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    We did 2 head tables for our family and the our bridal party had their own table with dates. We had a sweetheart table for us.
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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    We did a sweetheart table. Members of the bridal party should never be placed at different tables than their significant others/dates!

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Traditionally, family is closest, but you don't have to do anything.

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    Dedicated February 2022
    Tiante ·
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    You could mix your immediate family members to only have 2 parent tables like if your parents are remarried or with someone you’d put your mom & her plus 1 with his mom & her plus one then your dad & his plus 1 with grooms dad & his plus 1. Then fill empty seats at those tables with siblings or elders
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