So as recommended I did a second hair trial. The first one was beautiful to me and I loved it but it didn’t last long (45 mins) then fell out. So she said hot rollers would hold curls. I wanted loose curls and to do the first photo but to stay longer, well, that did NOT work out. It was a mess.
First hair trial (one with braid).
And.. second hair trial. (One that makes my hair look 7 inches shorter, not loose at all and has a brass look). (Ignore my gross back guys lol, I was in my pjs for this she came to my house).
You couldnt do anything with this no braid no nothing, it was hard and felt like wire. I sat under this machine for 2 hours and 20 minutes + the hour of her rolling my hair up and pinning (ouuuch) but sitting in the same position with my head in a bad position was so much worse. I couldn’t turn my neck after 😬
All in all, I hated it, absolutely, no doubt at all, hated it. I immediately washed my hair very well and am not sure what to do, I’m worried the curls won’t last or she’ll do something that ends up disastrous on my wedding day when I don’t have time to shower and all that again to retry. And I can’t afford to keep paying for trials it’s 25$ each time, and 40$ for the wedding day. The first time she forgot some of her stuff so she “couldn’t do it the way she would” and the second time she forgot something that would’ve dried my hair without breaking my neck, so both times she was unprepared, what is she’s unprepared on my wedding day, her house is an hour away and she had plenty of time to think ahead and get the stuff. I don’t know what to do. My mother chose her and invited her to the wedding without my saying so I feel almost obligated to let her do my hair, I don’t know what to do, my mom has a habit of waiting until the last minute to plan things (in instance I’m not getting a bridal shower because it’s too late now apparently and she’s had 6 months, but I’m appreciative for what she has done non the less just a bummer). I can’t plan and do everything myself, I really need her help I don’t really have anyone else but she doesn’t prioritize my needs and she always says things will work out (which sounds confident and sweet) but when things aren’t getting done and being put off till last minute that doesn’t always work out, and I have seen that happen many many times. I just needed to vent about this, I don’t have many people that understand I’m not trying to be selfish and rude, I just had a little dream and a little expectation and it bummed me out, doesn’t mean I’m unappreciative.