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Carson
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Second Reception?

Carson, on August 4, 2024 at 10:31 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 1

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I have run into a dilemma with our guests and guest count. For context, we are located in Dallas, Texas and will be getting married in the Midwest. Our problem is we have a ton of people here in Texas we would love to celebrate with but don't expect they will be able to/commit to travel all the way to the Midwest (Such as coworkers, neighbors, etc.). Should we:

A. Invite them anyway and anticipate a decline. However, if a lot say yes, we are at risk for going over our allotted guest count.

B. Throw a couple's shower/pre-wedding reception here. But we don't want people to think "Oh were good enough to buy a gift but not get an invite".

C. Other suggestions we are open to!

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Latest activity by Jacks, on August 4, 2024 at 2:46 PM
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    A is not a great plan because of exactly what you stated. If you invite people, it's important to be prepared both in budget and space for 100% attendance.

    B is problematic because of what you said as well. It's considered rude to invite people to come celebrate something that they aren't going to attend. It might come across as a gift grab. The same is true of "back and married" parties.

    I would honestly just have the guest list you can manage well. Not everyone needs an invitation just stick with your really close people. You're lucky to have so many people in your life!

    ps- of note, you don't host your own shower, it's an etiquette faux pas.

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