Hi, Everyone -
Has anyone ever had to possibly change their wedding party lineup after doing some more thinking? As of now, our wedding party is most likely only going to consist of my best friend (Man of Honor), my sister (a bridesmaid), and my fiancé's brother is going to be his Best Man. We always knew we would have an unconventional and smaller wedding party than most other couples.
I had originally planned to include one other friend of mine in my wedding party but after doing some more thinking, I have realized that he and I are not as close as we used to be. I think we have slowly drifted apart as friends (as sad as that is) and I was only planning on including him mostly out of obligation. I would still invite him to the wedding, but as a guest only.
I did briefly mention the possibility of him being in the wedding party a little while back (before I got engaged) and while he did seem happy about it, he hasn't really mentioned it any more since I got engaged. I also haven't really been discussing any of the wedding planning, etc. with him which is odd if I was planning on having him be in the wedding party. Normally your wedding party are excited and want to cheer you on, but I haven't really gotten that vibe from him since the beginning. I just don't feel that sense of "closeness" that we once shared.
Also, I think that having only two people on my side would make it less "one sided" since my fiancé is only having a Best Man. These are still early days, but I am starting to think that our downsized wedding party idea might be the better option. Has anyone else gone through something like this?