Our wedding is set for 8-11-2018, and most of wedding planned and a lot of the down payments have been paid for ( venue, catering, hotel rooms, and wedding dress). My fiance is in the Navy and he told me this week that we actually need to get married ASAP to get our paper work started. he recently got stationed across the country so we need to move in September.
so we will probably need to elope next month, and I don't really want to tell my family. if word gets out they will all want to be there, and we are already paying for one wedding we cannot afford 2. i just can't really keep a secret from them.
Does any have an idea, or have been through a similar situation