To my married ladies out there that were not 'Disney excited' about any part of the whole wedding process... when it was all said and done were you happy or do you feel you missed out by not waiting for those TV perfect, tears of joy moments?
My fiancé and I are basically eloping (just my mom attending, our only parent between us) at a local B&B that's offering mini-wedding packages. This location checked a lot of my boxes because its inclusive (B&B room, officiant, flowers, cake, photographer, etc.), well within my budget and close to home. I tend to stress so having everything taken care of and just adding our personal preferences here and there is perfect for us. But when I went to see the venue last week i just felt neutral. I didn't dislike it but I didn't get fluttery feelings or feel giddy..
Same with my dress. I didn't want a traditional wedding dress because I like the ways of the older 40/50s wedding where the couple wore their nicest clothes and had a simple ceremony. I chose a very pretty knee length blush Calvin Klein dress that I feel pretty in. I went to two different bridal stores to get the experience of trying on wedding dresses and to make sure I wasn't making a mistake by skipping the formal gown... again, though, none of the dresses made me cry or anything dramatic.
Knowing myself, I'm not someone who gets overly excited about things. I'm practical and pragmatic and very very mellow so I don't think I should be expecting the crazy, crying happy, emotional responses that others talk about but Id love to hear from someone who felt the same while planning their wedding and whether they continued to be happy with their choices post-wedding or if they wished they had waited for that elusive crazy happy.