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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Selfie Obsession - Red Flag or Deal Breaker?

Lynnie, on August 13, 2019 at 11:46 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 63

Just how bad of a sin do you think selfie obsession is? When you scroll through their instagram, if it's all selfies do you panic? Selfie Obsession - Red Flag or Deal Breaker? Next Question: Cheating Back to the Beginning: Red Flag or Deal Breaker?

Just how bad of a sin do you think selfie obsession is? Smiley winking When you scroll through their instagram, if it's all selfies do you panic?

Selfie Obsession - Red Flag or Deal Breaker?


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63 Comments

  • Nodyia
    Expert October 2020
    Nodyia ·
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    Deal breaker, I don't have to worry about that FH is more into me then any man I ever met

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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
    Natalia ·
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    Ew, deal breaker. Sorry, that just shows me you're a little too full of yourself and I don't enjoy that.

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  • K
    Expert February 2020
    Kristina ·
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    Deal breaker - it would be annoying to me.

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  • Chelsie
    Devoted May 2020
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    Deal breaker. Because this mean they are self absorbed and self absorbed people tend to cheat.

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  • Mrscolón
    Super September 2019
    Mrscolón ·
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    Deal breaker!

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated September 2019
    Jessica ·
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    I wish he would take more pictures of us....but it depends. If it's just him always to post on social media...red flag.
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
    Amber ·
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    Never thought about it, but probably deal breaker. I've found that guys who post nothing but selfies are waaaayyy too in love with themselves. Unless you're wanting nonstop selfies of the two of us together, the selfies are a no-go.
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  • Marlena
    Expert June 2020
    Marlena ·
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    Thankfully I don't have to worry about this since my FH hardly ever takes selfies lol but I'd say red flag
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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
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    Not sure I would think to much of it... unless they're all arrogantly posed.

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  • Paulette
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    Paulette ·
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    I love taking selfies but I do it every other couple of days. If a guy is always taking selfies then that's a red flag. My FH likes taking selfies but he does it sparingly, like when he shows off his sports gear or with me. So I'm good!

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  • Andrea
    Devoted October 2020
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    He will not by himself, but he loves to do them with me. His camera is full of selfies of us. He is also the one who wants me to post them on FB and IG.

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  • Katie
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    Red flag, drives me crazy. Self obsession shows how they will behave in he relationship. Really how much they’re on their phone or social media tends to relate to selfishness and self centered behavior I feel.
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  • J
    September 2020
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    Not a deal-breaker but I'd find it annoying. There would need to be other red flags there for it to be a problem though
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  • Aleah
    Dedicated October 2019
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    Deal breaker for me! But luckily neither of us like social media! And we both hate taking selfies, I’m actually really camera shy, I actually chased my niece down the other day cause she took a video of me while I was working on moving logs for decorations at the wedding site. I deleted it and she laughed like crazy, it’s childish I know. But I can’t stand it when people have/take photos of me without permission. When FH does it I chase him too, everyone loves doing it cause it gets me worked up but. Just nooo. Lol.
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  • A
    Beginner September 2020
    Amanda ·
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    Eh- my insta is mostly selfies, and it’s never bothered my fiancé, although some of his friends have made some wild assumptions about me because of it.

    Who cares if someone is proud of a killer makeup and outfit look they pulled together?
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  • Jessica
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    Kind of a deal breaker. I hardly take selfies myself, it's too time consuming and I prefer group pictures that catch us in the moment instead of over posed.

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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
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    Red flag. Selfies together, awesome, hundreds of selfies alone, umm no.

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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
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    Red flag, but not a deal breaker. I'd be wondering why he needed so much validation from strangers on his appearance honestly.

    My guy doesn't even have his face on his facebook account, and he doesn't have instagram or anything else. He's a very shy and humble guy. One of the many things I love about him.

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  • Tanyia
    Expert February 2020
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    Yuk! Weirdo! Deal breaker for sure. Annoying as well.

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  • Anna
    VIP October 2020
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    That would be weird if he did it. I probably take too many but I don’t post as many now, mainly just running ones and half the time I just share them with him.

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