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September 29, 2018 - when to send the invites??

Amber, on July 16, 2018 at 9:30 AM Posted in Planning 0 18
Anyone with September 29, 2018 wedding, or dates around this, when are you ladies sending out your invitations???? Our caterer needs a headcount 3 weeks before the date, so we have RSVPs due August 25. I don’t want to send them too early or too late!! What’s everyone doing?!

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Latest activity by Olivia, on June 2, 2019 at 9:11 PM
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    Expert September 2018
    FutrureMrsA ·
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    I would say send them now! I’m septenber 21 and I sent mine two weeks ago, mainly due to all of the out of town guests. But I would say you don’t have to wait if you have everything ready to go!
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    Savvy September 2018
    Elizabeth ·
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    In Sept 22, I sent mine last week with an August 22 rsvp date! Have already gotten back a handful of cards.
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  • Mrs.Sanok
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    Mrs.Sanok ·
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    I am going to a wedding on September 29th, and I already have their invite. Their RSVP date is Aug 20th.

    We are September 21st, and we sent them out last week and some people have them already.Our RSVP date is Aug 28th! We need a finally head count 2 weeks before!

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    Expert October 2018
    Nicole ·
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    Definitely send them out now so people have enough time to respond.
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  • Deryn
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    Deryn ·
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    I’d send now. My wedding is October 6, and the venue needs a count Sept. 6. We made our RSVP date August 25 (giving stragglers a full week to catch up and the extra couple of days for us to contact any). We mailed ours this past Thursday
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  • Teresa
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    Teresa ·
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    I'm Sept 15th and sent mine out last week. We dont need numbers back until the week before (all inclusive venue woohoo) so I gave people till Aug 29th to get them to me and give me time to hunt people down.
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  • Lacie
    Devoted September 2018
    Lacie ·
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    I would say that date would work! I am sending out mine by Friday. But I am also leaving for a 10 day vacation and it would be late to send them out by the time I got back. Our RSVPS are due back September 1st.

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  • ArwenToHisAragorn
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    ArwenToHisAragorn ·
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    I'm October 5th, we're sending them out this weekend with an RSVP date of August 24th.

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    Devoted October 2018
    Josie ·
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    I’m 10/07/18 and I sent mine last month lol... I know it was early but we didn’t send out save the dates. I was just so excited!! I think 8 weeks in advance of your RSVP date is good!!!
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    Devoted October 2018
    Josie ·
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    I also only put an RSVP date of about 2 weeks prior to the wedding. To each their own!!! Lol
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  • Happy Hedgie
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    Happy Hedgie ·
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    Send them now! I'm getting married September 28th and sent mine yesterday. My venue only needs two weeks notice for our final headcount so I have an RSVP date of September 10.

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  • AJ
    VIP September 2018
    AJ ·
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    We have the same wedding date and RSVP date! I sent our invites out last week. Already have 6 back Smiley smile
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  • AngTrom
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    AngTrom ·
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    Just to join the crowd, I am 9/22 and sent mine about 2 1/2 weeks ago. I have an RSVP date of 9/1. We did online RSVPs only and I have I think 7 of 46 couples thus far....and naturally it's mostly people RSVPing yes that we thought wouldn't be able to make it. Smiley smile

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  • kiakia0131
    Dedicated September 2018
    kiakia0131 ·
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    We are getting married September 29th and we sent out most of the invites in June (his family needs to give a lot of notice for their jobs) and the rest are being mailed out this week.
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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    Getting married October 6th and sending invites today.
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    Beginner September 2018
    miriah ·
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    Yaayyyyy ur me wedding bride we have the same wedding date!!!

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  • Neffe
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    Neffe ·
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    Hi Amber! Welcome to the WeddingWire Community! Smiley ring Have you sent your invites yet? Now would certainly be a good time to mail them! Smiley smile

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    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Olivia ·
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    I’m thinking have them out by last 2 weeks of June to first of July so people can get them and give them time to respond but not to long to forget to respond
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