I've heard the exact same thing but my fiance insist that we have sex our wedding night, even it's for two min. This will be our first time being intimate, so we're ready to FINALLY do it.
We have spoken about this and it will not happen, we will be too tired, drunk and my fh gets whiskey dick real bad so he won't even be able to lol so we are gonna make up for it the morning after which is fine for me. I think we will enjoy it way more the morning after than trying to do it while we are exhausted on the wedding night
@FutureMrsGill - I'm laughing so hard at Whisky Dick hahahaha I've never heard that before. My FH gets "Whiskey Dick" but I'm assuming in the opposite way to yours. IT TAKES HOURS to finish! I can't see us not having sex on our wedding night, but I won't be disappointed if we don't. I mean, we have our whole lives to do it!
We have already agreed not to.. I want to enjoy our afternoon reception and spending time with his out of town family that nigjt for dinner then rushing home super tired and having horrible sex for our first time.. instead we start our drive to Canada the next morning and I figured we find a cute town and get a hotel and have sex then maybe walk around a bit find lunch/dinner and then hopefully call it a early night