Sex Talk Ladies!! (Gents too)

I always joke around with my FH that I am more like a guy when it comes to sex! lol I love it, what can I say? My man is hot and we are getting married so lets get it on! lol However I do not think sex is #1 in our relationship and half the time we are too exhausted from long work days to "do it" but I do believe it is healthy to keep an active sex life with your man!

DH and I had this conversation a few weeks ago. We are like rabbits, twice, three times a day every day... It's just part of who we are. Thankfully, we are very compatible in that area.

The difference between he and I, though is I see sex as a form of intimacy, he sees it as just the act of sex. He says our intimate moments occur when we are talking, holding each other or even when reading each others minds. These things occur 24/7.

While I agree that those are all ways we show our feelings for each other, obviously sex is the biggest one for me.

I told him I felt like if he didn't see our sex life as a form of intimacy, then he felt like I am replaceable. He disagrees.

Life is a balance and we, as adult, are constantly juggling many things. We don’t live together. But I stay over his place most weekend. A lot of the time we’re just tired. I would love to do it more, but there’s a lot more components to a life together than sex. However, it is important to establish expectations and make time for it. Definitely something to bring up before marriage. Especially if you plan on having children, that can change a lot.