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From the processional to the recessional - and everything in between - this is your space to get answers to everything you’ve ever wondered about vows, unity ceremonies, officiants, traditions, and more. After all, the wedding ceremony is what this whole shebang is about, right?!

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Amelia
How to Make Your Wedding Ceremony Unique and Memorable?
Amelia, on August 21, 2024 at 5:25 AM

Hi everyone! What elements or traditions did you incorporate into your ceremony that made it special? Whether it's a unique venue, personalized vows, special rituals, or anything else, I'd love to...

Amelia, Aug 27, 2024 16 265
Andrea
Vows- traditional, write your own, or hybrid?
Andrea, on July 30, 2024 at 10:22 PM

I’m just curious what people chose for their vows, and how they made the call. Did you want the traditional wording, write everything yourself, or some mix? Our officiant convinced me to write our...

Lisa, Jul 31, 2024 1 28
Kendall
Selling our reserved wedding venue.
Kendall, Today at 10:52 AM

Wedding planning is more stressful than it’s worth when you are planning your own wedding with us having 7 kids (combined family) and both of us working a full time job.. Our wedding was scheduled for...

Michael, 5 hours ago 1 12
Kara
How do i scatter petals with no flower girl?
Kara, on August 20, 2021 at 9:52 AM

I don't want kids at the ceremony. We saw those "flower guy" videos and asked an adult female friend to be Flower Girl. She declined. Without her, we're leaning more towards no flower girl at all...

Kerisha, Aug 25, 2024 23 1,407
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Cancelling our venue and they ask us to pay the full cost
Ashley, on May 9, 2019 at 6:46 PM

Hello, We have to cancel our wedding due to personal issues and our venue is asking us to pay the full wedding cost in order to cancel. So far we’ve only paid the deposit. The contract says we are...

Michael, Aug 25, 2024 25 9,759 1
Angela
Logistically, how would i decorate an arch for the ceremony with real flowers?
Angela, on October 27, 2020 at 8:47 PM

Hi all, Has anyone had any success in decorating their wedding arch with fresh flowers before the ceremony? I am in the planning stage and thinking of all the moving parts on the day-of. Regarding the...

Paula, Aug 23, 2024 8 1,191
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Outdoor lighting for evening ceremony in December?
Alexandra, on August 19, 2024 at 1:18 PM

Hi all, I’m getting married on the 1st of December. We want to use our venues garden area for the ceremony and it starts at 5 pm. We live in Houston and we were wondering if it will be dark to the...

Cece, Aug 19, 2024 1 40
Hilary
Wedding party decisions!
Hilary, on August 15, 2024 at 11:18 PM

Hey guys! I need opinions/suggestions here lol I have 6 girls for my bridal party.. but my fiance doesn't want any groomsmen. Just our 2 sons. He has friends but not really "close" friends to where...

Veronica, Aug 18, 2024 3 177
Ambryce
Venue
Ambryce, on August 13, 2024 at 9:46 AM

It’s so hard finding the perfect venue please help

Janae, Aug 18, 2024 3 51
Jkwedding
1 bridesmaid, 1 groomsman, and a very short aisle. Ideas for processional order / timing / something cute so it's not awkward?
Jkwedding, on August 15, 2024 at 5:11 PM

The title pretty much sums it up. We have 2 people walking down the aisle with us, and my grandpa is walking with me to give me away. We don't have anyone else in the ceremony. Also, the aisle is a...

Jkwedding, Aug 18, 2024 3 52
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Processional order with no bridal party
Breah, on August 6, 2024 at 5:25 PM

Hi all my name is Breah and im a May 2025 bride! My fiance and I have elected to not have a bridal party except for a MOH and BM. That being said im having a hard time with deciding the processional...

LM, Aug 14, 2024 2 43
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Wedding Rings
Lunajay, on January 20, 2022 at 9:00 PM

What happens with the ring um... night or day of wedding??? I know the best man has them at the ceremony and is gives them to the officiant to give to the couple. But are we suppose to give up our...

Mike, Aug 9, 2024 24 519 2
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What is a Reliable/acceptable Website for Someone to Become an Officiate?
Michelle, on August 6, 2024 at 8:30 PM

We live in Texas and are wanting to have a friend officiate our wedding, we are struggling in finding good resources for him to become an officiant. Technically, the officiant doesn’t have to register...

Michael, Aug 8, 2024 1 25
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Wedding Flowers at Kroger
Louissthephin, on August 2, 2024 at 4:56 AM

Hi everyone, I’m getting married this November and looking for flowers for decoration. Is it okay to buy wedding flowers from Kroger, or would you recommend another option?

Dani, Aug 6, 2024 3 69
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Walking down the aisle
Skylynn, on April 26, 2024 at 4:14 PM

I was wondering what kind of songs is everyone walking down the aisle to?? Instrumentals or soft lyrics? Give me ideas!!

Erica, Jul 31, 2024 109 2,507 7
Kaylee
Bridesman and Groomswoman, which side do they stand on?
Kaylee, on July 28, 2024 at 2:33 AM

We have decided to have a bridesman and a groomswoman. We are both friends with each of them and the guy is a guy’s guy and the girl is a girl’s girl so I’m thinking to have them dress in the gendered...

Michael, Jul 31, 2024 5 64 1
Rose
Is a 6pm ceremony too late?
Rose, on May 26, 2024 at 12:30 PM

Our ceremony starts at 6pm but then I realized cocktail hour is 6:30- 7:30 which puts dinner 8pm. Is this too late? We have to be done by 10pm so we have an hour to clean and are out by 11pm :/

Tressa, Jul 26, 2024 19 600
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Religious Officiant Help
Kayla, on July 24, 2024 at 9:28 AM

Hello all! We are working on finding an officiant for our wedding, and hoping to have a Christian pastor with a sense of humor to officiate and crack a joke or two. The problem is, there seems to be a...

T JHTK, Jul 25, 2024 2 74 1
Alexandria
Officiant speech
Alexandria, on July 22, 2024 at 1:19 PM

Hi everyone! What are the customs for a officiant script? We have our uncle officiating our ceremony. Do we provide him with a script or does he create one? We are also doing a hand fasting ceremony...

Elly, Jul 24, 2024 3 105
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How to ask my Dad’s best friends to walk me down the aisle?
Sarah, on July 6, 2024 at 1:38 PM

Hi all- My dad died about 9 years ago and he had two best friends that have known me since I was a baby. When we got engaged I mentioned to them that I wanted them to walk me down the aisle and they...

Heather, Jul 7, 2024 1 39
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